Four-Legged Besties, this Perfect Picture Book Friday

The day I stopped at the pet shop to buy fish food for my Beta, I didn’t know I would leave with a new friend the size of a hamburger.

The store was busy that day. Dads and moms lifted their children to peer through the tanks at the colorful fish while other families crowded the bird room to consider adopting a parrot or a budgie. Seeing the long line at the register, I decided to look around and return when fewer people were checking out.

The reptile room was new to me and was also the least populated by shoppers. In the first terrarium, a group of sleepy lizards sunned themselves under a heat lamp. Further down, an iguana approached its food dish. As I watched lettuce pieces disappear into its mouth, a rhythmic thump-thump-thump caught my attention. I listened and decided the sound was coming from somewhere close to the ground. I looked into the terrarium on the lowest shelf and knew the tiny gecko couldn’t make such a sound.

Thump. Thump. Thump.

I got down lower to the ground, and what I saw hurt my heart. Another terrarium stood behind the gecko’s terrarium, completely out of sight and inaccessible. Through the shadows, I spotted a lonely tortoise, trying to climb the glass wall to escape. Each time it managed to raise its front legs against the glass, it slid back down with a thump. I couldn’t blame the tortoise for trying to escape its prison. A dirty bark floor surrounded a water bowl that offered a brown puddle, and the little food dish held a wilted lettuce fragment. The tortoise stopped climbing to look at me through its crusted eyes. I didn’t need time to consider my next move.

I found the manager and directed his attention to the neglected animal in his care.

“He’s sick,” the manager said. “When he’s better, we’ll put him out for sale.”

“How is he supposed to get better without clean food or water?” I asked. “And how is he supposed to get clean food and water when his terrarium is out of sight and out of reach?”

“I’ll have someone take care of it today,” he said.

As the manager walked away, I pulled out the gecko terrarium and reached back for the terrarium with the tortoise.

“What are you doing?” the manager demanded.

“I’m buying this tortoise,” I said.

“I told you he’s sick, and I’m not selling him until he’s better,” the manager snapped. “Besides, you don’t know anything about caring for a tortoise.”

“It doesn’t look like you do, either.” I took out the tortoise and held him close. “Along with this tortoise, you can also sell me a book about tortoise care, a water dish, a food dish, a heat lamp, and a terrarium.”

To this day, I don’t know if the manager agreed because of my determination or my watery eyes.

One month later, my new friend was completely well and exploring the garden.

Seven years later, my hamburger-sized friend is thriving and loves his morning neck massage and crunchy greens, which leads me to today’s Perfect Picture Book Friday review.

Written by  –  Nan Forler

Illustrated by – Yong Ling Kang

Published by – Tundra – 2022

Suitable for ages – 4-8

Theme – loss of a pet, friendhip, and compassion.

Opening – 

Rodney was an old pal. He was older than Bernadette, older than her dad, even older than Great-Aunt Clara.

“He is practically prehistoric! Bernadette told her class on Pet Day.

Day after day, year after year, Rodnew was there, loyal and true.

Amazon Review –  This comforting and gently humorous picture book about bereavement and the strength of friendship shows how a child overcomes the sadness of her beloved pet’s death.

Bernadette and Rodney are the best of friends. Rodney’s not so good at playing cards, but he’s great at staring contests. His favorite food is lettuce, though he eats it VERRRRRRY SLOOOOOWLY. And he’s such a joker! When Bernadette goes to sleep at night, Rodney is always there, watching over her from his tank. 
 
As the seasons pass, Rodney moves slower and slower, until one day he stops moving at all. Without Rodney, Bernadette feels all alone. She can’t stop thinking about him, but none of her friends seem to notice. Except for Amar.
 
Rodney Was a Tortoise is a moving story about friendship and loss. It shows the importance of expressing kindness and empathy, especially in life’s most difficult moments.

Why do I like this book? — This tender tale takes us on the emotional journey from loss to recovery in a way children can understand. Through beautiful storytelling, the author and illustrator create a strong bond between Bernadette and Rodney–a bond so strong that when Rodney passes away, the reader feels the loss and sympathizes with Bernadette when she disappears into a sort of protective shell. With the kindness and compassion of an observant friend, Bernadette begins to express her feelings, recovers from the loss, and moves forward again.

Learn about Nan Forler HERE.

Learn more about Yong Ling Kang HERE.

How to make a sweet paper tortoise Here on Amazon.

Until next Friday,

Leslie

Back After Receiving A Curve Ball. Happy Perfect Picture Book Friday.

I visited my blog for the first time since April. What can I say… Life throws curve balls. I’ve missed writing my musings to you about my life and, more specifically, my childhood memories I love to tie into my picture book reviews.

To be honest, I wasn’t hit with just one curve ball. If you’ve ever watched to movie, BIG, with Tom Hanks, you’ll remember the scene when Billie gets pelted after gym class with basketballs. Got the visual? That’s what my life felt like.

Big Bear Was Not the Same: Rowland, Joanna, Ledda, John: 9781506471419:  Amazon.com: Books

Here’s a recap from the call I received that brought the bigest curve ball.

“Hi, Leslie, It’s Janet from the Breast Center. The results came in from your biopsy, and I’m very sorry, but it showed cancer.”

For a total of one second, I searched for my voice before spouting out, “Now is a REALLY not a good time for this. You see, my house just sold, my entire life is taped up inside of 114 boxes, I’m moving in a little over a month, and my daughter is in the hospital bacause she almost died from the second COVID shot. Do you understand how BAD the timing is here? I can’t have cancer now.”

To say the diagnosis came at the wrong time would imply a right time exists. There never is a good time for such a thing. About two weeks later, my husband suffered a mild stroke. Stress, by the way, is a terrible thing; the sooner it gets banned the better.

I tried distracting myself while I waited for my surgery date. I scrolled through my Facebook feed and scoffed at a post from a writer, complaining over two agent rejections they recieved in their inbox that day.

Seriously! You’re bummed about two rejections?

I’ll come clean and admit that a month earlier, a couple of rejections on a manuscript would have left me devestated. Cancer is funny in the way it gives life perspective about what is trivial and what is worth a good rant.

Confession time…

Only my family knew about my diagnosis. I thought if I told my friends what I was going through, they would tell me about their friends or family members who received a similar diagnosis, and I didn’t want my head filled with stories that might frighten me more.

As surgery neared, I discovered I needed more support if I was going to get through this. I didn’t expect what came. One by one, friends offered their love, prayers, virtual hugs, and even Reiki healing from afar. The mailcarrier delivered get well cards. Uplifting text messages and virtual greeting cards popped up in my inbox. A bouquet of colorful blooms and a bag of fresh-picked greenbeans arrived at my front door. Over Zoom, one friend offered me the encouragement I needed to face the future with renewed inner strength and a smile. Another friend chatted with me over coffee at the Starbucks in my town from the Starbucks in her town. Friends called to say they were ready to listen if I needed to talk–night or day.

This is the part when my post becomes a Perfect Picture Book Friday Review.

Shortly before surgery, a picture book arrived on my front door step from one of my critique partners and friends. The book, BIG BEAR WAS NOT THE SAME, is about a bear that lives through something scary and has a challenging time recovering when so many things remind him of the traumatic event. The story told of his special friend that promised to be there for Big Bear no matter how far they run, how loud they roar, or how long they sit in silence. Big Bear’s friend knew that traumatic events are a little less scary when friends stay by each other’s side.

Title – Big Bear Was Not The Same

Written by- Joanna Rowland

Illustrated by  – John Ledda

Suitable for ages – 4  – 8

Topics/theme – Trauma, Empathy, and Friendship

Opening – 

Little Bear loved the woods and going on adventures with his best friend Big Bear. Their days were full of laughter, exploring new heights, and great fun.

Whenever Little Bear got into sticky situations or scary ones, Big Bear was right by his side to help with his big bear claws, his big bear teeth, and his big bear hugs.

Synopsis from AMAZON – One scary day can change everything . . .

Little Bear loves the woods, his home, and going on adventures with his best friend, Big Bear. Big Bear is so big and strong and brave. He always protects Little Bear and helps him feel safe. Then something scary happens to Big Bear. He’s caught in a forest fire. Even after he escapes and is safe, Little Bear can tell that Big Bear is not the same. He runs, roars, or freezes in fear when ordinary things happen in the woods that remind him of that traumatic day. How can Little Bear’s big, strong, brave friend be so scared now? And how can Little Bear be a good friend?

In Big Bear Was Not the Same, Joanna Rowland, author of the bestelling book The Memory Box, gently introduces young readers to the common feelings of fear, anxiety, and anger that can follow a traumatic event, and shows them how to have empathy and compassion for themselves and for loved ones experiencing the effects of trauma.

Includes backmatter written by a family therapist with information on how to talk about trauma with children. 

Why do I like this book? It’s sometimes difficult to know how to be there for someone after they have endured a traumatic event. While some children automatically rush over to their friend’s side to give hugs, other children freeze up, not knowing how to help. This story offers a few perfect ways to comfort a friend in need. No spoilers here. To learn how Little Bear helped his friend, Big Bear, you’ll have to read this wonderful book.

Learn more about Joanna Rowland HERE.

Learn more about John Ledda HERE.

To leave you with good news, surgery is one week behind me, I’m on the mend, and my doctor said the final tests show I am cancer-free.

I hope you’ll visit me next week for another PERFECT PICTURE BOOK FRIDAY.

Just Listen This Perfect Picture Book Friday

Today’s Perfect Picture Book Friday looks at the touching story, The Rabbit Listened. I dedicate this post to anyone who knows the struggle of an emotional challenge.  

Sometimes problems grow into overwhelming proportions to the point of blocking out all light and hope. There’s no way to see through them or look around them. Well-meaning family and friends reach out to make things better by offering up their own sad stories in an attempt to make your troubles appear small by comparison. They might even resort to acting silly, assuming a smile is a sign all troubles have been wiped away. In some cases, people offer generic suggestions before listening and taking the time to understand.

The worst advice I ever received came from someone who wasn’t equipped to help because they had never faced my situation.

“Let’s pretend it never happened and move on.”  

They moved on. I couldn’t.

Today’s Perfect Picture Book Friday choice shares the story of Taylor, a child with an overwhelming problem. Many animals arrive to offer assistance, but only one friend takes the time to understand what Taylor truly needs.

I hope you’ll sit back for a moment (5 minutes and 42 seconds) and listen to The Rabbit Listened.

Title –  The Rabbit Listened

Author and illustrator – Cori Doerrfeld

Published by – Dial Books for Young Readers – 2018

Suitable for ages – 3-5

Topics – Empathy, kindness, and friendship.

Opening – One day, Taylor decided to build something. Something new. Something special. Something Amazing. Taylor was so proud. But then, out of nowhere…

Amazon Review HERE. When something sad happens, Taylor doesn’t know where to turn. All the animals are sure they have the answer. The chicken wants to talk it out, but Taylor doesn’t feel like chatting. The bear thinks Taylor should get angry, but that’s not quite right either. One by one, the animals try to tell Taylor how to act, and one by one they fail to offer comfort. Then the rabbit arrives. All the rabbit does is listen . . . which is just what Taylor needs.

Why I like this book—I connected to this story on all levels. I have been in Taylor’s shoes, dealing with an issue too big to keep inside and too big to share. I have experienced the well-meaning, but wrong, kinds of help Taylor received. I have been the friend who wanted to make everything better. Most importantly, I know the incredible feeling of receiving the support the rabbit offered.

The greatest gift we can give is to find out what someone needs…it’s as simple as listening.

Learn more about Cori Doerrfeld HERE.

Until next Friday.